I gave up on the Great Alternate BluRay player.

I read up on what the Windows 7 Security Rollup entailed, and everything it 'fixed' or patched had nothing to do with my computer.

So, I uninstalled that Rollup that disable ArcSoft TotalMediaPlayer.  I will keep using it until there is another viable alternative.

Security?  I have security software that will protect me from Malware, RootKits, hijackers etc etc.  I prefer to have my computer and the software I bought to work properly.